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  • Milicahas quotedlast year
    In many children—and I was certainly one—early reactions like these become embedded in the nervous system, mind, and body, playing havoc with future relationships.
  • Milicahas quotedlast year
    The home becomes a place where we unwittingly re-create, as I did, scenarios reminiscent of those that wounded us when we were small.
  • yulyaisirjozhahas quoted2 years ago
    he research literature has identified three factors that universally lead to stress: uncertainty, the lack of information and the loss of control
  • yulyaisirjozhahas quoted2 years ago
    She grew up believing she had to take care of everybody. “There was never any respite in her,” says Neufeld. “There was no internal resting place.”
  • yulyaisirjozhahas quoted2 years ago
    the child it is no relief to feel sadness or anger if no one is there to receive those emotions and to provide some comfort and containment
  • yulyaisirjozhahas quoted2 years ago
    Rage and anguish exist underneath the veneer of niceness, no matter how sincerely a person mistakes the facade for her true self.
  • yulyaisirjozhahas quoted2 years ago
    It was a multi-layered scenario. As usual, the most public layer was also the most superficial one
  • yulyaisirjozhahas quoted2 years ago
    “Extreme suppression of anger” was the most commonly identified characteristic of breast cancer patients in a 1974 British study
  • yulyaisirjozhahas quoted2 years ago
    What you’ve assumed toward your dad is a maternal role. Which is also why you’ve been taken for granted. Mother is taken for granted. Mother is like the world—she’s just supposed to be there and provide.”
  • yulyaisirjozhahas quoted2 years ago
    Adults with a history of troubled childhoods may not encounter more serious losses than others do, but their ability to cope will have been impaired by their upbringing
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