This was the classic behavior of abused children. Broken people learn how to keep the peace at the expense of our own needs. We merged into any given situation. When two chameleons successfully take on each other’s hues, there is nothing left.
Dexter Calledohas quoted2 years ago
It’s too much pressure—you know?—to act normal when you’re grieving. I just can’t do it. I can’t pretend that my whole world hasn’t fallen apart.