Mr. Shmooze is the parable of a man who reveals the secret  shared by all superstar salespeople. Selling, in its most exquisite  form, is not about "taking," nor is it about "persuading." Selling,  believe it or not, is about "giving."   Mr. Shmooze gives for a living. He starts by listening and he  quickly comes to understand what people really need. His customers  love him because he gives more than he takes. They trust him  because he is passionate about their interests. And, at the end of  the day, they reward him handsomely for bringing joy, humor and  wisdom into their lives.  Woven into the story are several powerful lessons for  salespeople in all industries who attempt to build relationships as  the emotional bridge to their clients. They include:    Bringing extraordinary passion and energy to personal  communications  Elevating ordinary experiences to create extraordinary  memories  Building a network with people in all walks of life not  just VIPs  Generating contagious, positive feelings, lifting spirits  because people buy with their emotions  Understanding that even small, positive gestures can lead to  huge, long-term results